If you would to ask me, what frustrates me usually, it would be meeting with the people who neglect on other people’s feelings, and also neglect in achieving a common goal in a team.
I understand that it is hard to communicate with people. Every time, when it comes to the situation that I meet up with a person who doesn’t care on other people’s feeling and just do whatever he/she wants, I feel frustrated, but I don’t show out my feelings towards the person. I keep the feeling within myself, and that causes me feeling unhappy for quite some time.
I feel release only when I don’t meet up with the person again within a few days. Whenever I meet up with the person again, the feeling comes back. That feeling creates a perception in my heart towards the person.
Maybe, because of this perception, I started to look into all the bad things about the person, and I myself neglect on the person’s good points. I’m trying to learn to communicate with this kind of people without the influence of my own perception. I think I will need to take some time in achieving this.
Yeah, I hope that one day, I can go through this, look into everyone’s good points, enlarge the good points and reduce the weak points in them.
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